哈佛大學用這11張圖,讓你遠離負能量的人

2018-09-29 17:13:02

01.

負面的人害怕改變,

negative peopele are afaid of change,

正面的人則歡迎新的機會到來。

positive people are ready for new experience.

02.

負面的人覺得沒必要稱讚他人所做的事,

negative people thinks 'why should i praise people for doing what they have to.'

正面的人卻往往會看到並讚賞他人的好。

positive people says'wow! you're a real professional in your field!'

03.

負面的人說話總在講著自己,

negative people start a dialogue like this'you know i'm going to…!'

正面的人會想到去了解對方的心情。

positive people start a dialogue like this'how are you doing? i hope everthing's great!'

04.

負面的人往往覺得世界應該圍著他打轉,

nagative people think they're the center of the universe,

正面的人卻會伸出手扶他人一把。

positive people take care of other and are always ready to help.

05.

負面的人總將錯誤怪到他人身上,

negative people blame others for their own mistakes,

正面的人懂得為自己的失敗負起責任。

positive people take responsibilities for their failures.

06.

負面的人就算知錯也不願道歉,

negative people never say sorry even when know they're quilty,

正面的人會在任何造成他人不便的時候先說聲抱歉。

positive people apologize for any inconvenience caused.

07.

負面的人只會想著個人利益,

negative people think only of personal gain and benefit,

正面的人卻會試著不去傷害到他人的感受。

positive people try not to hurt others' feelings.

08.

負面的人討厭被批評,

negative people hate to be criticized,

正面的人則歡迎有建設性的討論。

positive people welcome any constructive discussion.

09.

負面的人想看到其他人失敗,

negative people secretly hope to see others fail,

正面的人則希望看到其他人成功。

positive people want others to succeed.

10.

負面的人認為自己什麼都懂,

negative people think' i can't do anything about it. this is my destiny.'

正面的人卻總想學習新事物。

positive people think'i need to change something. i can't keep living like this.'

11.

負面的人遇到任何事都先退縮,告訴自己不行;

negative people think they know everthing,

正面的人卻會想辦法改變,讓自己活得更好。

positive people always strive to learn something new.

負面和正面的人之間的差別,

在“一念天堂,一念地獄”的抉擇中。

審視一下自己,是否處於負面的狀態。

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